Erection Problem Or Not?? Posted: 07-01-07 09:35am
I'm 21 years old and have been dating my
girlfriend for 2 years. I never have any
problem at all getting an erection around
her. We used to date on and off in high
school. During one of these "off" times I
was with another girl. We went to fool
around one time and I couldn't even get an
erection even though she was really
attractive to me. I honestly feel that I
can only get an erection around my
girlfriend and no other girl. I can get an
erection by myself or looking at porn but
I am almost positive if some beautiful
girl came up to me and wanted to fool
around, that I would not be able to get an
erection. I feel that if I were to break
up with my girlfriend, that it would take
forever (if at all) to get an erection
with a new girl. Is this just a
psychological problem or possibly a
medical one? Thanks a lot for the help.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 07-01-07 13:03pm
Since you are able to get an erection, it
sounds like you do not have a medical
problem. A medical problem would not just
show up when your girlfriend isn't around,
then leave when she is! So it definitely
sounds psychological to me.
A lot of times, guys have trouble getting
erections if they are not comfortable with
the situation. So it's possible that you
just weren't comfortable with that other
girl or situation, but you are comfortable
with your girlfriend. If you two do
breakup, it might take you a little while
to become completely comfortable with a
new girl, but that's not at all unusual.
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fiona05
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Posted: 07-01-07 14:04pm
don't worry, mate. there is nothing wrong
with you. you are just nervous because you
are with someone different. for a lot of
people it just takes to get closer to
someone and build up trust before you can
pluck up the courage! the penis may be a
sex organ, but the truth is the biggest
sex organ is your brain!!! that's where
all the signals have to come from if you
are to get an erection. if you are even
slightly nervous, or wondering what she'll
think of your penis or your body, or
worrying about whether she'll like it or
not, then it isn't gonna work. it's just
the way it is. any decent girl will
understand. and it's nothing to beat
yourself up about. it's happened to every
guy i've ever been with. and it always
gets better once i've got to know them.
you just need to take things at your pace
and chill out
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kdesky3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jul 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 07-02-07 12:11pm
Thanks guys. I was hoping it was just all
in my head.
