MrsLtd
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Posted: 07-03-07 12:33pm
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Hey everyone,
Just wanted to let you know my pregnancy
is probably not going to progress any
further. I had a second beta done
yesterday and the number didnt change at
all after 4 days. The nurse said she had
never seen it not change at all before. It
didnt go up or down.  I'll go back on
thursday, but they suspect I will start af
before then. I am so sad. I told close
family and friends because I couldnt wait
and was so excited, now I have to go to
the 4th of July parties and either not say
a word or be a big party pooper and tell
everyone. It sucks. I guess we will see.
DH is still optimistic, but I have read
enough to know its not going to stick.
Well, enough of my sob story. So, as soon
as af comes its on to cycle #2 of clomid.
Now I know not to tell anyone except dh
and you ladies the next time, until I am
in the clear.
Thanks for listening
Rebecca
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 07-03-07 12:38pm
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Aww...Hun...I'm so sorry! Don't give up hope
just yet. I'm glad your dh is being
supportive. You know we're here for you.
~Big hug~
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-03-07 12:39pm
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hey rebecca
i hope evrything goes well im really sorry
though
best of luck
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Posted: 07-03-07 13:36pm
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Rebecca,
I am sorry that you got such bad news at
the doctor today. Hopefully there is
still a chance that you still are
pregnant. If I were you, I wouldn't say
anything tomorrow at your 4th of July
party. I would wait until your
appointment Thursday until you know for
sure that you are not pregnant. That is
just me though. I wouldn't want everyone
dwelling over me when it is supposed to be
a party... I don't like to be the center
of attention!
Hope you get good news on Thursday. Let
us know. And remember, we are always here
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MrsLtd
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Location: Michigan
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Posted: 07-03-07 14:01pm
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Thanks so much ladies,
It makes me feel so much better having you
girls to talk to.
I probably won't say anything tomorrow, I
dont like to be the center of attention
either, and when I feel bad, I tend to
push people away. It is just going to
suck trying to act all excited about the
pg, but at least I will be with the people
I love the most.
I'll let you know how thursday goes. You
all are the best, Everyone have a
wonderful 4th!
Rebecca
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Volaremos
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Posted: 07-04-07 00:29am
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Aww sweetie i am sorry, But dont give up
hope just yet.
Hope everything works out good, So sorry
dear.
Big hug for you..
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 07-04-07 08:30am
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Oh, I am so sorry sweetie! Let us know how
everything works out so we can be here for
you either way.
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shortgeek
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Posted: 07-06-07 08:21am
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I'm sorry. Are you feeling any better
today?
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MrsLtd
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Posted: 07-06-07 08:55am
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Hi everyone,
Hope everyone had a great 4th.
This morning af came on with avengence. I
have never had such awful cramps before.
I talked to the nurse this morning and she
said it was good that I am bleeding on my
own and it should pass quickly. I still
need to go in for more bloodwork today. I
should have gone yesterday, but I woke up
on Wednesday with absolutely no symptoms
at all and inside I knew it was over.
We are doing ok though. DH is the best and
somehow keeps me amused. I am just
thankful that this didn't happen later in
the pg, it really wasn't much longer than
a normal cycle.
Thanks everyone for all your concern. I
am waiting for the dr to call and tell me
if I need to wait a cycle or continue
clomid this month.
Rebecca
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 07-06-07 09:14am
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I'm sorry.
You really seem to be handling everything
very well. (even though you know you don't
have to be strong here.) I'm glad your dh
is being supportive. Hopefully, this month
will be it for you. Everyone says you're
super fertile after a chemical pregnancy.
So here's some ~sticky baby dust~ to
you!!
I'm here if you need a shoulder. Pm me
anytime. I will be at work in front of
this god forsaken computer for the next 7
hours straight and I'll be on later
tonight as well.
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 07-06-07 10:13am
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I am sorry you had to go through this. I
had a chemical (early miscarriage) back in
march and now I am almost 9 weeks along.
It's very disheartening but it gets easier
with time. If you need to talk feel free
to pm me.
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MrsLtd
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Posted: 07-06-07 11:18am
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Thanks so much mg,
Did your cycle return to normal right
afterwards? I am having the mother of all
afs right that started with no warning
today. I am hoping my cycle returns to
normal so we can start trying again. I
haven't heard form the dr yet, but I don't
know how comfortable I feel about taking
clomid while all of this is happening
(notice how I avoid saying the "m" word).
One thing, I have decided to never test
again until af is late! This has been the
most stress filled cycle ever, partly
because I obsess about those hpts.
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MrsLtd
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Posted: 07-06-07 16:00pm
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Just talked to Dr. and she said I could
start clomid sunday. I feel weird about
it, like I am not giving myself a proper
amount of grieving time. What do you all
think?
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 07-06-07 16:07pm
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Well, my cycles went back to my normal
(which is not normal at all since I have
pcos). Chemical pregnancies are usually
easy fertility wise to bounce back from.
Mine was back in march and I got pregnant
again in June if that helps any. This
pregnancy has been like night and day
though. I've had no spotting and
everything so far has been perfect. We
started ttc right away again as did my mom
when she had her miscarriage. She said
getting pregnant again was all that
snapped her out of her depression (she was
farther along though). It just really
depends on what you want. I would probably
go for it and hope for the nice fertility
boost this normally gives.
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