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kingofga

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Hard time figuring out Posted: 07-03-07 14:35pm


there is this girl i meet n this summer program for teens and she's so sexy ...i have game n everything but i want 2 really get 2 kno this girl she 's givin me the hardest time tryin to talk to her...she has an attitude with most things .....she seems high matinence but i dnt kno i havent spit my game yet i try 2 figure the girl out first b4 i really tlk to her but im havin a hard time figuring her out.....iono wut im doin wrong i get allot of good looking gurl but this chick is hard???what should i do

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Posted: 07-05-07 13:04pm


she just might not be interested in you.

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Re: Hard Time Figuring Out
Posted: 07-05-07 14:44pm

kingofga wrote:

i try 2 figure the girl out first b4 i really tlk to her but im havin a hard time figuring her out.....iono wut im doin wrong i get allot of good looking gurl but this chick is hard???what should i do

yeah maybe she doesn't like you,maybe she doesn't like how you act.maybe she doesn't want you to 'spit game' at her.how can you figure someone out without getting to know them?there's no way.Your just going to have to let your guard down and talk to her and act normal.maybe she has the wrong impression of you.maybe she thinks your a player and don't have her best interest at heart?those are some things to think about.

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Re: Hard Time Figuring Out
Posted: 07-05-07 14:55pm

kingofga wrote:

there is this girl i meet n this summer program for teens and she's so sexy ...i have game n everything but i want 2 really get 2 kno this girl she 's givin me the hardest time tryin to talk to her...she has an attitude with most things .....she seems high matinence but i dnt kno i havent spit my game yet i try 2 figure the girl out first b4 i really tlk to her but im havin a hard time figuring her out.....iono wut im doin wrong i get allot of good looking gurl but this chick is hard???what should i do

Maybe she heard you have a reputation for getting girls and she doesn't want any part of your record..

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Yo Posted: 07-05-07 15:12pm


Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner!

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-05-07 15:21pm

Fairy*Godmother wrote:

Yo Atlanta............I'm an hour away and we know how to spell here. The way you present yourself, even on here at ehealth, trying to type in some piglatin language, it makes other people think everyone from GEORGIA is ignorant. Which we aren't..... If you are truly interested in this young lady, be yourself. Quit playing games and trying to be a playa......women don't like mind games......go up to her and be polite and talk to her....not jibberish slang crap....REAL WORDS........... tell her you would like to get to know her. If she's not interested, at least you tried in a dignified manner! Cool

lol i was just about to say something about that!

maybe your just "spittin too much game " or however you said it
girls like SMARET guys
not ones who talk in a foreighn language

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-06-07 06:57am

Fairy*Godmother wrote:

so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-07-07 20:54pm

~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:

Fairy*Godmother wrote:

so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing

ok i'll stop talking in slang i got that from being on msn messenger to much i smart thats jst how i talk sometimes online...sorry....but....what do i go up to her and say ??? some tips please ....i dnt wanna look like a kid n write her a note... im 15 what do i do????????????see no slang Wink

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-07-07 20:56pm

kingofga wrote:

~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:

Fairy*Godmother wrote:

so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing

THATS better lol
well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?"
something casual
you'll think of the words to say

ok i'll stop talking in slang i got that from being on msn messenger to much i smart thats jst how i talk sometimes online...sorry....but....what do i go up to her and say ??? some tips please ....i dnt wanna look like a kid n write her a note... im 15 what do i do????????????see no slang Wink

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-07-07 21:26pm

the_girlfreind wrote:

kingofga wrote:

~*~Melissa~*~ wrote:

Fairy*Godmother wrote:

so true,stop spittin game! just talk to her! (I don't think everyone from georgia is ignorant!)

and lol for jibberish slang! I usually say jibberslang! it rolls off the tongue better! Laughing

ok what if i jst want her number for now so i can talk to her n get to kno her?

THATS better lol
well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?"
something casual
you'll think of the words to say

ok i'll stop talking in slang i got that from being on msn messenger to much i smart thats jst how i talk sometimes online...sorry....but....what do i go up to her and say ??? some tips please ....i dnt wanna look like a kid n write her a note... im 15 what do i do????????????see no slang Wink

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Posted: 07-07-07 21:27pm


did my posting dissapear?! what the heck?!

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Re: Yo Posted: 07-07-07 21:29pm


THATS better lol well you walk up and say "hey i just wanted you to know i think your absolutely beautifulm and wanted to know if maybe youd like to go to a movie or lunch or something?" something casual you'll think of the words to say ok what if i jst want her number for now so i can talk to her n get to kno her?

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-07-07 21:33pm

kingofga wrote:

sorry lol
hmm to ask for her number try and talk with har first. girls dont like to just hand thier # out to strangers
just talk to her and then say "well hey i gotta go but if you dont mid can i have your number so i can call you sometime?"

something like that

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Re: Yo Posted: 07-07-07 21:37pm


hmm to ask for her number try and talk with har first. girls dont like to just hand thier # out to strangers just talk to her and then say "well hey i gotta go but if you dont mid can i have your number so i can call you sometime?" ok...ill try i hate rejection and getting laughed at ....lol but really

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Posted: 07-07-07 21:41pm


yeah if she sees your a nice guy then she probly wont reject you i hate shallow girls so if shes shallow and stuck up then forget her

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Posted: 07-07-07 23:30pm


Don't try and spit your game... Just be yourself. Don't try and be something different to impress her.

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Re: Yo
Posted: 07-09-07 06:22am

kingofga wrote:

hmm to ask for her number try and talk with har first. girls dont like to just hand thier # out to strangers
just talk to her and then say "well hey i gotta go but if you dont mid can i have your number so i can call you sometime?"

ok...ill try i hate rejection and getting laughed at ....lol but really

well if you have as much game as you say you do,getting rejected isn't gonna hurt you too much.just do like the above said.Strike up a convo with her and show her your a nice guy.Don't tell her she's hot,tell her shes beautiful or gorgeous or tell her something you like about her personality to get her to open up.tehn maybe you can get her digits!