OK, i am in the process of getting a
divorce and totally feel guilty and alone
righ now inside. Out of frustration i
signed up on a dating site back in Jan.
thinking i could talk to someone when i
was out on business. I honestly can say
that nothing wierd would have happend if i
did talk to another woman and it never did
come to it and i forgot about the sign up.
Well, my current wife was wondering around
the internet and foud this profile post
and at first i lied and said it wasnt me.
2 days later i couldn't handle the lie and
guilt so i told her and now she,
rightfully so, will not ever trust me
again! It is my fault and i am sorry, but
has anyone ever made this mistake? I
regret doing it and then lying about it
and now i have to live with it forever.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 07-04-07 11:14am
yes everyone makes mistakes but youve
gotta deal with the consiquences
its not fair that your wife was hurt and
lied to.
i think everyone messes up and everyine
deserves their chances
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
Posted: 07-04-07 11:57am
your getting a divorce cause of the dating
website? or you were already getting a
divorce?
i see it this way your getting a divorce
so who cares what she thinks move on with
your life.
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Spirit
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 387 Location: Canada
Posted: 07-16-07 07:11am
chase4
wrote:
your getting a divorce cause
of the dating website? or you were already
getting a divorce?
i see it this way your getting a divorce
so who cares what she thinks move on with
your life.
Agreed...............but since you asked,
it makes me wonder?..............having
second thoughts? or the one who didn't
want the divorce in the first
place?.................does it matter at
this point? probably not........if someone
pushes you away............you have every
right to look for love
elsewhere..............no guilt
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
You Are Not Alone Posted: 09-24-07 11:31am
this had happened in my life but as I look
back why would i have bothered ...people
like us go looking for ???whatever for a
reason whether we see it up front or not
......why were we curious what in the
world was lacking ,missing ,needed to
fulfill that quirk?
In my mind as awful as it was when I
walked away I have saved my life by
following thru living with my own decision
to leave and I am happier now than all 22
years of living a marriage of
convience..we are divided on my timing but
no one now thinks it was a mistake
............ok so divorce doesn't mean an
end if it is meant to be there is a way
back ...your wife felt betrayed ...they
don't bounce back from that happy campers
trust lost never comes back never . You
would spend your hole life showing her she
could trust you again and never regain it
.....take the lumps and decide what you
can live with ....most of all second
chance or not .....learn from this ,let it
become history that you do not repeat
.....best wishes
wazzywoman/robin
