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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Why Am I So Nieve?
Posted: 03-07-04 01:20am
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Hey. So ...Dan ditched me last saturday
to do who knows what... And he got in his
accident this week and didnt have a car,
but he ditched me again, and I think he
went with friends. Mtv live @ the
club....And he said he was hanging out
with his family. The boy doesnt have a
good relationship with his parents or
sister so why would that ever be more
important in his mind than seeing me,
unless hes lying again.
We had a great night last night, and he
pulls this..
I try ultimatums and that but then im
losing something too. Like you cant see
me unless you do this, and this...But then
I miss out by not seeing him...Lol... Im
so pathetic.. I reallly reallly
realllllllllly love him with all my heart,
but he hurts me so bad, and he continues
to, cuz I do nothing real to stop it I
think. What should I do?Im not givin up
on the boy, I just want him to realize how
I feel. I think sometimes I share how I
feel too much and its just annoying, but
how else do I make him understand?
Love mol
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HomecomingQueen2003
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Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 03-07-04 01:24am
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I've got a plan jump on yahoo real quick
hun!
Megan
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 01:25am
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Im on but I dont have your screen name
sweets..
Love mol
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 01:27am
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Alright.. Got ya added... 
love mol
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6624
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 03-07-04 01:28am
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You have no idea how alike we are mol.
Love,
chanda
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youngmomtobe
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Joined: 19 Oct 2003
Posts: 728
Location: Illinois
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Posted: 03-07-04 01:29am
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Hey girl mines jenkat1604!!!
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HomecomingQueen2003
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2003
Posts: 936
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Posted: 03-07-04 01:29am
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Ok its soooo not working! Lol
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6624
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 03-07-04 01:30am
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 01:30am
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Add me too.. I duno why neither of u are
shown online now  poop..
Im cheerbaby5740 on yahoo
and aim is umbrellasoh
mol
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6624
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 03-07-04 02:10am
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All 3 of us are on. You name, I can't add
it. Says it's not right.
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 03-07-04 02:11am
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Sorry to hear your guy isnt being as great
as he should be. He may be scared that
his baby is due soon...A few months? He
might be trying to have fun while he can
because once he becomes a father his late
nights are over unless it involves
changing diapers. Men get scared too,
even more so cause we control the
situation more than they do. I know you
guys are young (are you 16 or 17?) but men
arent too old to get scared. One of my co
workers is in his 30's and is expecting
his first and is terrified. Let him know
that this is his little one too. Dont let
him use the excuse "i need the space" too
often. My guy and I are giving each other
space but still manage to talk and arrange
small amounts of time together so I dont
see any reason for him not to give you
30mn of his time, you are carrying his
baby after all. Hope for the best for
you!
P.S - I read some previous posts and does
he race?
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 14:27pm
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Hey. Yah, he races. Lol he loved his
baby(car) I know he needs space sometimes
and that too. Its rough on me right now
though... But, man, im doing good not
calling him today unless/til he calls me.
I hope he does.
Love mol
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 03-07-04 14:45pm
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I'm sorry this is so hard on you, but try
your best not to wait for him by the
phone, makes things worse, try to do
something with family or friends and just
have faith.
Meg
p.S - I was asking if he raced cuz I know
too many people that have been hurt badly
or killed, and he is going to be a father
so it makes me a little uneasy
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 15:32pm
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Meg- oh my, yes, it makes me uneasy too.
I think its a god thing that he lost his
car in the accident too.... Like
preparing him for whats to come, or a wake
up call. Well I ran some arrands for my
mom and im staying busy or online and
thats helpful. thank you soo much.
I really can't handle his immaturity much
longer, I hope things change when livy's
here...And if they dont then I really dont
think I should put her through this with
me. I need to get dan to understand I
want him there, or not at all. Its just
so hard... I love him and I want him all
to myself, and to even think of him moving
on to another girl makes me sick to my
stomach.
love mol
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 03-07-04 16:54pm
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I know that sick feeling, when we decided
to take a break last week I couldnt keep
any food down for 2 days, but youre right
his car getting totaled is a good thing,
hopefully he will learn. I used to think
racing is awesome until a knew a truly
remarkable person I used to go to school
with get killed when some problem hit her
and killed her, and he still hasnt been
punished, hes in college now and her 2
kids are motherless! He will learn and
hopefully this is the lesson he needed,
dont want your little one to be fatherless
(boy or girl?)
meg
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 16:59pm
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Im having a girl _shes guna be a
blessing thats for sure. Whether hes with
me or not, I am sureeee he'll be there for
her.. He still hasnt called though. oh well. Im not
guna fret.
mol
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 03-07-04 17:26pm
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Do something that makes you happy. Eat
some chocolate (youre having a girl and
all girls like chocolate!)
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 03-07-04 17:34pm
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And crazy bread from little ceasars!!!
Lol
im gettin me some now..
Love mol
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5295
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Posted: 03-09-04 01:13am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-09-04 10:49am; edited 1 time in total
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