sillyakchick
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Best Friend Was All Lies!-jerry Springer Update
Posted: 07-08-07 21:14pm
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If you remember I posted a couple of
weeks ago about my brother and my best
friend ending their 2 1/2 year
relationship and how much trouble I was
having with it. Well, I just found out
today that she got married three days ago.
Everything she ever told me was a lie!
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Posted: 07-08-07 21:32pm
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oh im so sorry!  was she a really
close close freind of yours?
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Posted: 07-08-07 23:12pm
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what do you mean?! did she marry your
brother or some other guy!?
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 07-09-07 11:59am
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Sorry, my post got cut short yesterday due
to children...
Anyway, she was my best friend and had
been living with my brother for 2 1/2
years. Then He took her to meet the
family and everything was great. Then 2
weks later, she was crying and upset and
said thet she was unhappy and confused,
but really couldn't say why. My brother
moved out to give her space, and they were
still talking. He asked her if it was
another person, but she said no. Then 1
1/2 weeks after he moved out, she married
soe guy she knew in high school.
Everything she told me was a lie! The
worst part is that my brother was the last
one to know, and I was second to the last.
She even took her new "husband" or
whatever out to meet all the friends in
our little group. She did this before my
brother even knew she was married. It's
trashy, disrespectful, and completely
dishonest. I don't know how long this has
been going on, but it is really obvious to
me that she has been cheating and lying to
all of us. I am disgusted, and
heartbroken.
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Posted: 07-09-07 12:02pm
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why do people do stuff like that?
im sorry but that makes me sick
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Posted: 07-09-07 12:03pm
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I think she's crazy. It makes me sick,
too.
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Posted: 07-09-07 12:06pm
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watch one day she'll get whats commin to
her
theres that saying "naver leave the one
you love for the one you like bacuise the
one you like will just leave you for the
one they love"
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Posted: 07-09-07 12:15pm
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Yep, Karma is a female dog.
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Posted: 07-09-07 12:19pm
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well best of luck to your brother :/ he
must have really liked her because most
guys dont give women their space
is he ok?
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Re: Best Friend Was All Lies!
Posted: 07-09-07 12:20pm
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | If you remember I posted a
couple of weeks ago about my brother and
my best friend ending their 2 1/2 year
relationship and how much trouble I was
having with it. Well, I just found out
today that she got married three days ago.
Everything she ever told me was a lie!
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And she made you all upset that day and it
was all a lie.. so sad! But it's probably
a good thing for your brother he found out
what type person she really is..
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Posted: 07-09-07 12:27pm
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He does "angry" better than "depressed",
so I think he is actually doing better.
At least he knows why it happened and that
it wasn't his fault. She probably did him
a big favor. 
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Posted: 07-09-07 14:42pm
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omg chick,i;m so sorry! what a horrible
person she is! how could she do something
like that!? I feel for you and your
brother.i'm sorry.
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Posted: 07-10-07 16:12pm
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OK this is almost Jerry springer type
stuff. I went to speak with her last
night to finally get the straight story.
The story I got was that she got a job
offer to transfer out to Kansas, and then
when she got home from work that day, her
x-bf was sitting on her porch and proposed
to her right there. So the next day they
got married. he is in the military and it
just so happens that he is being
transferred to the same place where she
got a job offer. Yaeah? I call that a
whole buncha BS. I told that to her face.
I told her that we were supposedly best
friends and that she had lied to me and
that is something I cannot forgive, as I
believe honesty is the center of a
friendship. She started to ask what she
had lied about and I was able to rattle
off 15 or so little lies that when you add
them all up makes a huge mess of lies.
It was a month ago when we were all
camping that she told my other friends
after I went to bed that she still had
feelings for her x-bf, and now she's
married to him? How much of a fool does
she take us all for? Honestly...I told
her that my 5 year old was really upset
and she was like "oh how do you explain
this to a five year old", like it was no
big deal, And I was like "my point
exactly!! How .D.O you explain this
tangled mess to a five year old!! I
shouldn't have to!" The thing is she was
realy the sweetest seemingly caring person
and all this time (for who knows how long)
she has been plotting and planning and
didn't even say a word to a soul. She
went to my hometown and met my family last
month. Two days later she was telling
some of our friends that she still had
feelings for her Ex! Lies lies lies...I
don't even know where it all started. SHe
was my effing .D.O.U.L.A for son of god's
sake! She was there for the birth of my
own children! How could such a selfish
person do so much damage in one fell swoop
to crush soooo many people? And then she
wants people to be happy for her? what??
I could even take it if this happened and
she had been truthful about it, but she's
lying to me still. When I confronted her
with all of this last night, I was bawling
my guts out and she just freaking sat
there all stone faced and said "sorry,
that's just the way it is. I always knew
I would get back with him" Which
prompted me to say "You mean the whole
time you were with my brother you were
planning to hook back up with this guy??"
She said she never really considered him
to be a long term relationship-even though
it's been 2 1/2 years and she even had an
artist friend draw a beautiful sketch of
the two of them kissing and gave it to him
for christmas! Did she snap or has she
been psycho all along?? I will never know.
I am too shocked. I haven't eaten since
sunday I am just too nauseated. My
brother is gouing to have to go be tested
because of all of this. Who knows if she
has been with other guys or what. I can't
imagine how he must feel as the bf if all
of the friends feel this way. We are such
a close-knit group of people, this has
truly devastated all of us.
Sorry this is so long, but I had to get it
out....
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Posted: 07-10-07 16:23pm
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damn... what a friggen b****...
im sorry but it sounds like shes some kind
of tramp
people like that make me sick
but dont starve yourself lol...
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Betrayal
Posted: 07-10-07 16:34pm
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It seems to me that people who get caught
up their own world of lies and deceit, do
more damage to themselves than to the
others around them. You gotta look at
yourself everyday in the mirror and how
can you love yourself when you hurt so
many others with your disrespect for
them.
Lying takes a whole lot of energy. You
have to remember all the stories, try to
keep straight what you told people and
then try to cover your tail. Lying is a
total and complete waste of time. And,
the liar will never, ever be respected.
We live in a small world and it appears
you have a very close family and group of
friends.
What is this girl going to do? Move off
the face of the planet?
What goes around, comes around and
sometimes sooner than you can expect.
Your brother may have really cared for
this girl, but consider you family lucky,
expecially your brother. When we marry,
we marry the family. Unless a person is
totally anti-social. Sounds like this
girl is used to hurting people. Hope she
is up to the eventual payback time.
Roberta
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Posted: 07-10-07 16:51pm
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She is moving to a military base. the
day before she got married, i just found
out, she claimed medical bankruptcy.
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Posted: 07-11-07 13:57pm
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I have decided that it is a waste of my
mental time and good energy to carry this
around anymore. I have to put it down
before it drives me insane. I finally
found forgiveness, and I feel much better
about it. There is no going back or
anything, but I know that harboring such
anger is bad for my soul and my
conscience.
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Posted: 07-11-07 14:08pm
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | I have decided that it is a
waste of my mental time and good energy to
carry this around anymore. I have to put
it down before it drives me insane. I
finally found forgiveness, and I feel much
better about it. There is no going back
or anything, but I know that harboring
such anger is bad for my soul and my
conscience. |
good girl silly! Your
doing the right thing.Oe day your brother
will find somene for him. . . 
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Posted: 07-11-07 15:28pm
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I hope so.....
Hey! anybody need a slightly used 28 year
old boy? He's really cute! Nahhh, jus
kidding.... 
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Posted: 07-11-07 15:42pm
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | I hope so.....
Hey! anybody need a slightly used 28 year
old boy? He's really cute! Nahhh, jus
kidding.... |
lol... i already have one
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