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Posted: 07-10-07 21:29pm
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| aemakhmaltchi
wrote: | | Are you sure he didn't move
your bathing suit to the side?? Sensations
can feel different
underwater....Otherwise, like the others
said, it's pretty difficult to DO IT
underwater and through your layer of
clothes AND his unless he was trying to
stab you.....
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ha ha
yeah that wouldnt have been comfortable to
him eiher if thats what he was trying to
do
maybe he moved your natheing suit aside
like she said and you just felt his
clothes?
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aemakhmaltchi
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Posted: 07-10-07 21:36pm
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You need to be careful sweetheart, it only
takes 1 time to catch AIDS or Chlamydia or
Herpes or any other disgusting sexually
transmitted disease... If you are posting
a question about whether or not you are a
virgin or not, then you really haven't
been properly education about your sexual
health. It is a dangerous game to play
that can cost you your life. The few
minutes of pleasure is not worth a disease
or an unplanned child who may have to
suffer because of a bad situation. Be
more careful, and you probably should stay
away from guys who try to shove themselves
through your clothes in a pool. Thats a
little scary. 
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-10-07 21:39pm
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| aemakhmaltchi
wrote: | | You need to be careful
sweetheart, it only takes 1 time to catch
AIDS or Chlamydia or Herpes or any other
disgusting sexually transmitted disease...
If you are posting a question about
whether or not you are a virgin or not,
then you really haven't been properly
education about your sexual health. It is
a dangerous game to play that can cost you
your life. The few minutes of pleasure is
not worth a disease or an unplanned child
who may have to suffer because of a bad
situation. Be more careful, and you
probably should stay away from guys who
try to shove themselves through your
clothes in a pool. Thats a little scary.
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you know... i just wanted to let ya know
that girls need more ppl like you on this
forum to give them info like that and make
them realize its not just getting pregnant
you have to worry about
sorry im off topic but what you said was
true
you can get a disease from something like
that.
i wouldnt have even thought about that
when she first posted
diseases are worse then getting pregnant
most of them can kill you and make you ill
for the rest of your life
be careful
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R-I
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Posted: 07-10-07 21:56pm
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I totally agree, i wouldnt have thought of
that either..... If i was you hun, i
would go to a doctors and get some test
done for diseases. Its no laughing
matter.... Also i would suggest you get
some sexual health books.
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Posted: 07-10-07 22:43pm
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I am going to answer her actual question.
Whether or not his penis went inside of
you is not the issue. You think it did.
That's what matters.
You asked if whether or not you were still
a virgin if you were wearing clothes when
the penis entered your vagina. You are
not
still a virgin. Having on clothing has
nothing to do with keeping virginity or
losing it.
If a penis was inside of your vagina,
regardless of clothing, you are not a
virgin.
(if of course your views on virginity are
as simple as that. Personally, it's what I
believe. Penis + vagina + insertion = not
a virgin.)
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R-I
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Posted: 07-10-07 23:14pm
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Way to put it! SIMPLE!!!!! 
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Posted: 07-11-07 06:51am
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yes,this is true!
BUT for you others who are saying its hard
to have sex in water,its not. yeah,hard
with clothes on maybe but not hard in
general.and also,clothes stretch,her
bathing suit could ave gone in right with
his penis.of course he would have to be
pushing extra hard but it could happen.
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Posted: 07-11-07 07:58am
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it's easy enough for him to of just pushed
your bathing suit to the side. it is easy
to have sex in water. i've done it loads.
i think you should ask him if he put it in
or not. if he did- you are not a virgin.
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paystl
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Posted: 07-11-07 09:04am
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Okay, lets not forget you are not even
sure you had sex or he entered you which
means there was no conversation of this
between the two of you. He didn't ask or
consult you...creepy. Stay away from that
one hun. And Eri is right once
inserted,not a virgin, i don't care what
is covering it.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-11-07 13:16pm
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| beckster
wrote: | it's easy enough for him to
of just pushed your bathing suit to the
side. it is easy to have sex in water.
i've done it loads.
i think you should ask him if he put it in
or not. if he did- you are not a
virgin. |
really its always been harder for me in
water?!
ive done it in the shower and it sucks
because it was so hard lol
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Posted: 07-11-07 14:43pm
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I have a different opinion...
If he didn't ask & it wasn't
consentual then she is still a virgin. I
think of 10 year olds who were raped as
still virgins. I just think you have to
do it consentually to "lose" it, as I
think virginity (in this case) is more of
a mindset than a biological technicality.
Technically, was her hymen broken?
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Posted: 07-11-07 14:53pm
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| Birch
wrote: | I have a different
opinion...
If he didn't ask & it wasn't
consentual then she is still a virgin. I
think of 10 year olds who were raped as
still virgins. I just think you have to
do it consentually to "lose" it, as I
think virginity (in this case) is more of
a mindset than a biological technicality.
Technically, was her hymen
broken? |
The hymen has absolutely nothing to do
with virginity, so it doesn't really
matter... hers was probably broken long
before this, that or she didn't have one
anyway.
I had a "hymen" long after I was no longer
a virgin. But that didn't mean I was still
a virgin! I definitely wasn't! Then again,
a girl born without a hymen isn't
instantly "deflowered". That's a little
silly.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-11-07 14:54pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Birch
wrote: | I have a different
opinion...
If he didn't ask & it wasn't
consentual then she is still a virgin. I
think of 10 year olds who were raped as
still virgins. I just think you have to
do it consentually to "lose" it, as I
think virginity (in this case) is more of
a mindset than a biological technicality.
Technically, was her hymen
broken? |
The hymen has absolutely nothing to do
with virginity, so it doesn't really
matter... hers was probably broken long
before this, that or she didn't have one
anyway.
I had a "hymen" long after I was no longer
a virgin. But that didn't mean I was still
a virgin! I definitely wasn't! Then again,
a girl born without a hymen isn't
instantly "deflowered". That's a little
silly. |
is they hymen like when they "pop your
cherry" or is that 2 seperate things?
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Posted: 07-11-07 14:55pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | Birch
wrote: | I have a different
opinion...
If he didn't ask & it wasn't
consentual then she is still a virgin. I
think of 10 year olds who were raped as
still virgins. I just think you have to
do it consentually to "lose" it, as I
think virginity (in this case) is more of
a mindset than a biological technicality.
Technically, was her hymen
broken? |
The hymen has absolutely nothing to do
with virginity, so it doesn't really
matter... hers was probably broken long
before this, that or she didn't have one
anyway.
I had a "hymen" long after I was no longer
a virgin. But that didn't mean I was still
a virgin! I definitely wasn't! Then again,
a girl born without a hymen isn't
instantly "deflowered". That's a little
silly. |
Well, some cultures and people do believe
the intact hymen has alot to do with
virginity so I was throwing that out
there. I think that if she wants to
believe she's still a virgin, she could
take that into consideration.
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R-I
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Posted: 07-11-07 16:04pm
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i know people who consider themselves
virgins because they werent inlove... I
think its kind of rediculous though for
the people i know, because those girls
through themselves at the guy.....
Anyways, ive done it in the shower and it
seems harder because it slips out
easily... I dont like doing it in the
water i dont think it feels as good.....
Maybe thats just me
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Posted: 07-11-07 16:06pm
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| Rachel-Isabel
wrote: | i know people who consider
themselves virgins because they werent
inlove... I think its kind of rediculous
though for the people i know, because
those girls through themselves at the
guy..... Anyways, ive done it in the
shower and it seems harder because it
slips out easily... I dont like doing it
in the water i dont think it feels as
good.....
Maybe thats just me |
thats how i feel too
ive done it in the shower and its
uncomfortable going in? it feels wierd to
me
i dunno
maybe were wierd people lol
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R-I
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Posted: 07-11-07 16:11pm
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I know seriously, it feels so weird, i
hate doing it in the shower! My boyfriend
has wanted to in the pool and the hot tub
and im like ewww chlorine!!!! im scared it
will give me a huge infection or
something... and like my boyfriend isnt
small and its hard for him to put it in
and stay in..
lol im glad im not alone 
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Posted: 07-11-07 16:12pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | Rachel-Isabel
wrote: | i know people who consider
themselves virgins because they werent
inlove... I think its kind of rediculous
though for the people i know, because
those girls through themselves at the
guy..... Anyways, ive done it in the
shower and it seems harder because it
slips out easily... I dont like doing it
in the water i dont think it feels as
good.....
Maybe thats just me |
thats how i feel too
ive done it in the shower and its
uncomfortable going in? it feels wierd to
me
i dunno
maybe were wierd people
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I worry that in the throes of passion I'll
take in a mouthful of water.
"Oh, yes...oh...*sputter* *splash* I
c-can't... *gurgle* *hiccup* Hun...*gasp*
...Yoo ne-ed to...*hitch*"
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Posted: 07-11-07 16:12pm
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| Rachel-Isabel
wrote: | I know seriously, it feels
so weird, i hate doing it in the shower!
My boyfriend has wanted to in the pool and
the hot tub and im like ewww chlorine!!!!
im scared it will give me a huge infection
or something... and like my boyfriend isnt
small and its hard for him to put it in
and stay in..
lol im glad im not alone |
ha ha were just freaks and tahts why it
only feels wierd to us
naw im just jokeing
yeah ive done it in the hot tub and the
pool
it sucks to me
not fun
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Posted: 07-11-07 16:50pm
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| the_girlfreind
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is they hymen like when they "pop your
cherry" or is that 2 seperate
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It's the same deal, crudely speaking. And
I just abhor crude language.
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