I have had sex before
and i know i need to see a doctor
but i'm only 15 and yeah in a year i can
take my self
but as of right now i have no way of
getting there
and i know its dumb but i am scared of my
mom finding out
i love my boyfriend and i know ppl say oh
its just a teenage thing
but its really not i cant explain it
and i only do something that i am 100%
sure about
and sex with my boyfriend is one of them
we have been going out for over 2 year. i
dont really know what my question is i
just wanna know if theres anyone out there
that is or has been in my place and what
they have or will do. If ur going to be
mean about this please dont bother posting
anything it just makes me feel worse and
it really bugs me.
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Anne123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2007 Posts: 290 Location: Canada
Posted: 07-11-07 08:53am
We'd love to help with suggestions but I
don't understand what the problem is.
Are you uncomfortable seeing your family
doctor about this and want to find a
clinic?
Do you want to see your family doctor but
don't have a way of getting there?
Do you live in a rural area where there
aren't any city buses?
Is there not a family planning clinic in
your city and you need to get to a
different city?
A little more information on what the
problem is would help us give you some
suggestions.
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R-I
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2007 Posts: 253
Posted: 07-11-07 16:15pm
When you get a physical they will normally
ask you if you are a virgin and things
like that... Also i would say its a good
idea to get into the ghyno.... You need to
get a pap smear. YOu want to make sure you
have no diseases.... Im not trying to
scare you but its better to be honest.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 07-11-07 16:19pm
well in texas and most places i think you
have to be 18 to go to the doctors withut
a parent or guardian
im 16 and i they wouldnt let me go by
myself until they confirmed i was
pregnant
yeah you need to go though
you could have an std or he could too and
you may not even know it
you need a pap test done
they arent comfortable but they are a part
of being a woman.
and you say you only do things your 100%
sure about
honey let me tell you
if your haveing sex and your afraid to tel
your mom then your not 100% sure
b/c what happens if you DO have a disease
or become pregnant? your probably not on
birthcontrol or anything so what if you
get pregnant? how will you tell your mom
then
if you cant deal with the ENTIRE
responsibillity of sex then dont do it
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R-I
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jun 2007 Posts: 253
Posted: 07-11-07 20:51pm
in MA you have to be 18, but sometimes
they dont accually inforce the age thing
and you can go in when you are younger. My
parents had to sign for me the first time,
well accually when i went to the ghyno for
the first time, my boyfriends mom took me
and signed for me. You normally need
someone over 18 to sign for you....
Do you have a planned parent hood near
you?
BTW, didnt you say you just went through a
miscariage in another post??? if thats
true you deffinitly need to go to a doctor
ASAP. Also how would you know if you were
going through one or not? when i went
through one, the only reason they knew was
because they took my hormone level.....
and it dropped, and also the really bad
cramping and bleeding... But other poeple
have gone through cramping and bleeding
withoutgoing through a miscariage.
YOu really need to get into the doctor.
Its really important!
