He Can't Ejaculate When Receiving Oral Sex Posted: 07-11-07 10:56am
My man and I have a wonderful sex life.
Our problem is he can not ejaculate while
I am giving him head. I read some where
that when men masterbate it can cause them
not to ejacualte when receiving oral sex.
Is this true?
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Gellboy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 9 Location: Newport, Wales
Hey Posted: 07-11-07 11:08am
i don't think his masturbation has
anything to do with it, it's just some
guys can't ejaculate from oral sex, i'm
not sure what the reason is but some guys
just don't
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worrywart001
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 200
Posted: 07-13-07 18:16pm
mix the bj with a hj..then when he is
close go back to the bj...does it for my
bf
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blulyneguy
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Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 334 Location: Idaho,
I Agree Posted: 07-18-07 10:08am
The switching does help alot. I have only
'completed' one time from oral only and it
took like 30 mins. Mix in the hand and it
could be suckers as 10. Everyones
different, but oral doesn't get me there.
I love it but I need ALOT of stimulation.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 07-18-07 11:42am
Yeah, using both methods works better than
just one.
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Workingatit
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Joined: 07 Jul 2007 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-19-07 12:07pm
There is a lot of good information about
this under the search term "Male Orgasmic
Disorder".
I'm a man that can't cum with oral sex.
I think masturbation might have something
to do with it. I masturbated nearly every
day since passing puberty, and in fact got
to the point where I had to pull out and
bring myself to an orgasm manually most of
the time.
So, contrary to most of the pundits on
this site, my experience is that
masturbation is harmful! Harmful to
achieving orgasm in other ways.
I've stopped masturbating for over a year
now, and it is becoming easier to achieve
orgasm during sex.
During oral sex, however, I still shut
down as I start to get excited.
In reading about Male Orgasmic Disorder,
psychologically issues may play a
significant role. For me, that might mean
that having been molested by my female,
adult babysitter who before giving me a BJ
said, Don't pee".
I was about 6 year's old and what I think
happened is that my mind interpreted
"Don't pee" as "Don't ejaculate" as I
passed puberty.
Bottom line:
masturbating has it harmful side; and
adult females who molest prepubescent boys
do real harm to them.
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