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weeps23
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tricked into baby
Posted: 06-10-08 19:25pm
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i just was bored and wanted to make a
post.
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Tmddyan
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Maddie34
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Posted: 06-10-08 22:14pm
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haha well you picked a strange topic 
I wouldn't trick someone into having a kid
with me. It's a two person decision to me.
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eeyore46
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Posted: 06-10-08 22:21pm
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What? Are you or are you not pregnant?
How can someone trick you into becoming
pregnant?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 06-10-08 22:31pm
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I think she's saying, would you or
wouldn't you lie to your bf so that his
actions result in your being preg.
Like saying you're on birth control but
your really not.
This is all hypothetical I hope
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antigone
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Posted: 06-10-08 22:43pm
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Yikes! Only if I want to raise a baby on
my own! I think most guys would be pretty
upset with being tricked into parenthood.
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Posted: 06-11-08 00:03am
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agreed..if i were a guy and tricked into
getting a girl pregnant..i'd be upset...i
heard a few women do this if the
relationship is ending just to hold on to
the guy and have them stuck with
them...pretty drastic and desperate if you
ask me..and not a good way to HELP a
relationship in any way...i didn't know
anyone who personally did this..i've judt
heard of women doing it
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weeps23
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Posted: 06-11-08 09:33am
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why cant guys do it...
guys using the pull out method?
Saying they will pull out.
and then saying they didnt come...that
something was wrong or that its too hot or
something.
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Posted: 06-11-08 09:38am
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| weeps23
wrote: | why cant guys do it...
guys using the pull out method?
Saying they will pull out.
and then saying they didnt come...that
something was wrong or that its too hot or
something. |
Any female willing to believe that the
pull out "method" works, is just asking to
become pregnant anyway.
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Posted: 06-11-08 09:52am
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I would never trick someone into that kind
of thing. I think each person in the
relationship deserves to know what they
are getting themselves into.
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weeps23
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Posted: 06-11-08 10:02am
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teens and preteens use the pull out
method
and there are some selffish people out
there....
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Posted: 06-11-08 10:14am
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They use it because they don't know any
better.
It's not a method, it's luck.
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Posted: 06-11-08 10:24am
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Someone on here voted they would trick
someone into having a baby...yet the
responses tell a different story...
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Posted: 06-11-08 10:39am
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I've been wondering about that one too..
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Posted: 06-12-08 09:43am
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| Marianne0558
wrote: | | weeps23
wrote: | why cant guys do it...
guys using the pull out method?
Saying they will pull out.
and then saying they didnt come...that
something was wrong or that its too hot or
something. |
Any female willing to believe that the
pull out "method" works, is just asking to
become pregnant
anyway. |
Word!
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Posted: 06-12-08 10:04am
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My best friend is in a relationship with a
man who does not want children but she
desperately does. I could totally
understand her having 'an accident'.
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weeps23
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heres a new thought
Posted: 06-12-08 10:39am
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if you were with a guy since you were 11
and now your 36 and your coming up on your
last few years to be able to get
pregnant... but your love doesnt want
kids...
would you think about haveing unprotected
sex... without telling him...
like get careless with your
birthcontrol???
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Maddie34
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Posted: 06-12-08 10:55am
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I guess to me if I had different views on
kids with someone then it's reason enough
to leave the relationship.
Having kids is important to me- it's
something I want to do. I would not stay
with a man for 25 years unless starting a
family was as important to him as it was
to me.
I can see that point of view, but I
wouldn't want to force fatherhood on
anybody who doesnt want it.
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Posted: 06-12-08 20:49pm
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I stand on my previous post. If you trick
a man into getting you pregnant, you stand
the chance that he will not want to remain
in the relationship. You may be raising a
baby on your own.
Why would a woman who wants children stay
with a man who doesn't? I think it would
make more sense for her to move on and
find another man and start a family with a
man that wanted a family as much as she
did.
Forcing a man into fatherhood will set up
resentment with the mother and the child.
Why would you want this for a child?
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eeyore46
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Posted: 06-12-08 21:13pm
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Communication!!!!!! If he loves you, he
will listen to you. Tell him how much you
want a child. You should also have a say
in this issue. Would he leave you if you
became pregnant? Are you willing to lose
your husband to have a child, or do you
think he would be okay once he found out.
Again, communicate with him and tell him
how desperately you want a child. I know
you must love your husband, but he in
return has to love you enough to let you
have that child you so desparately want.
If you do trick him into it, he may leave
or resent your forever. I really think he
would fall in love with the idea should it
happen, and the baby as well, if he loves
you.
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