I have 2 kids & have been trying for more
than 2yrs for one more. My other two were
cesarean. I really don%u2019t want to
just wait and see because I have
fibromyalgia and am in constant pain. Also
the first two took such a toll on my body
that I don%u2019t think that I will be
able to handle it if it doesn%u2019t
happen soon. With the last one my doctor
wanted to put me on bed rest & I
don%u2019t want that so the sooner the
better. It%u2019s been 5 years since I was
pregnant last. I tried some herbal
fertility stuff last year & nothing
happened. I don%u2019t even know if I am
ovulating every time I try one of those
ovulation predictors it comes back
negative. I am starting to loose hope do
you have any suggestions?
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trouble conceiving Posted: 05-13-08 19:55pm
Its not clear to me whether you have seen
a fertility doctor or not. That seems
like the most reasonable thing to do at
this time. Its somewhat difficult for me
to relate entirely to your dilemma. It
took me 2 1/2 years to get pregnant with
our first child. We did see a fertility
doctor. No problem conceiving the second.
And I just can't imagine being interested
in having more than two. Mine are adults
now. Just remember....those little ones
become teens who have minds of their own,
want to drive, need car insurance, want
cell phones, etc. and might need money to
go to college. It gets kind of crazy and
expensive. I also work in special
education. I don't know if your two kids
are normal, healthy little ones, but it
pays to remember that not all kids are
born normal and/or healthy. There are no
guarantees. Have you noticed the large
number of autistic children that are being
diagnosed these days?? Just something to
consider. Sometimes we just need to be
grateful for exactly what we have!!
