Joined: 20 Dec 2007 Posts: 46 Location: ypsilanti, michigan, usa
trouble getting pregnant related to cesarian delivery ? Posted: 02-29-08 21:16pm
My fiance and I have been trying to
conceive for the last 4 months and so far
we have nothing!!! I have tried to think
positive about the situation but my
patience is wearing thin... is there
something wrong with me? I have a 2yr old
daughter from a previous relationship, and
I got preggo with her really fast, but I
did have a cesarian delivery.... I was
also put to sleep during the procedure....
might something have gone wrong? I get my
period every month and I never miss.... I
mean it doesnt come on the exact same day
every month but its usually between the
5th and the 10th... I only bleed for about
3 to 5 days.... and for the last three
months I have ovulated consistantly on the
25th.... and still nothing... I need help
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Idony
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Posted: 02-29-08 21:41pm
it can take a normal healthy cuople a year
or more to concive....most doctors wont
even see you (fertility wise) until at
least a year of ACTIVLY trying
it takes the right time of the month for
the right sprem to meet the right and to
implant just right then and only then can
you get pregnant
just give it some more time....are you
temping or using opks? it may help to do
it for a month or two just to be sure you
ARE infact ovulating then you think you
are
good luck
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nightangel73
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Posted: 03-01-08 11:56am
maybe your fiance is the one with the
problem. He could have a low sperm count
or something or you just need to wait. I
know I have seeing women trying for up to
7 months and then they get pregnant and
there was actually nothing wrong.
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gabby734
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Joined: 20 Dec 2007 Posts: 46 Location: ypsilanti, michigan, usa
thanx Posted: 03-03-08 20:44pm
I have just been racking my brain about
this situation, I am definately trying to
stay positive because I want another child
so bad, I guess I have to just wait it out
and see... and this may be a stupid
question, but what are opks?
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Idony
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Posted: 03-03-08 20:50pm
yeah, id say give it maybe like 5 or 6
more monthes and then talk to your doctor,
if there is something wrong they should be
able to fix it if not then you just need
to have more fun.....
if you dont mind me asking WHAT are you
doing? like how offten and when and stuff
(if its to personal i completly
understand) a lot of people seem to make
the mistake that simply having sex
whenever they feel like it will work but
you have to have sex at just the right
time of the month
and thats not a stupid question at all,
OPKs are Ovulation Predictor Kits, its a
test you pee on just like a pregnancy test
only it tells you when your ovulating
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jdp1982
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Posted: 03-05-08 10:53am
I agree with Idony - my husband and I have
been trying for the past 10 months to have
our first child and everything we've read
and everyone we've talked to said that it
usually takes about a year to conceive,
and we're not going to talk to a doctor
until that time comes. I just got a great
book called "Taking Charge of Your
Fertility" - very good reference about
everything you'd ever want to know about
trying to get pregnant. I wish you the
best of luck!
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gabby734
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kewl Posted: 03-05-08 20:21pm
I use it every month answer ovulation kit,
it has twenty strips and u use one daily,
until there are 2 dark lines, or the test
lines is the same or darker than the
control line and still nothing
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Nutrition Student
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trying to get pregnant Posted: 03-07-08 17:59pm
Hi!
My husband & I tried for 4 years and
just this fall we finally got in at the
Fertility Clinic and THIS is what finally
did it:
-Child Aspirine (1 - daily) to thin blood
a bit to aid in implantation of the
fertilized egg - you can take it right
away, once per day, throughout your
pregnancy. This will also prevent clots.
-I also took CLOMID for 4 months to make
sure I ovulated each month and did all of
the above, and it worked on month 4.
-So have an orgasm with sperm inside you!
GOOD LUCK!!
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nightangel73
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Posted: 03-17-08 22:02pm
gosh so many advice. I just came off the
pill about 3 weeks ago so let's see what
happens. OMG 4 years that's a lot of time
for me. I would ask for clomid after 6
month of trying. But I'm 35 years old
that's why. Can you imagine me waiting 4
years I would be 40 LOL. So ladies please
just pray for me!!