5 years ago my dad cheated on my mum. was
a mess.... ive been together with my
partner for 2 years, a year ago he cheated
on me. i wanted to sort it out, we worked
through it.. i thought i was over it.. i
think i trust him but then im always
panicing and questioning his feelings, im
insecure.. i dont like feeling like this..
what can i do'?
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little_lele89
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 57 Location: Aussie
Posted: 04-08-08 07:44am
??????????
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coliejo
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Joined: 19 Mar 2008 Posts: 603 Location: East Lansing, MI
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Posted: 04-08-08 11:48am
the best thing to do would be to talk to
him about it.
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little_lele89
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 57 Location: Aussie
Posted: 04-09-08 05:19am
thats the first thing i did..
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Rosie H
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Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 1136 Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
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Posted: 04-10-08 16:56pm
i personally would never be able to fully
trust after something like that. But maybe
I could I just dont know. That is
something very hard to completely
forgive.
I think maybe you havent completely
forgiven him thats why this keeps coming
up. If you had then it wouldnt bother you
this much. I wish I could be more helpful
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preciousone803
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Apr 2008 Posts: 8 Location: lexington, sc usa
Posted: 04-10-08 20:32pm
i hear u rosie h...i wouldnt be able to
fully trust him after a thing like
that....u have to fight fire with
fire...let him know how u feel and if he
dont change which is a sign that he doesnt
care...then make him feel the way u
feel...and see if he gets the
picture...some men needs for things to be
put in front of them in order to see that
there doing wrong...if that dont change
him then maybe by u not being in his life
will!!
