Joined: 11 Apr 2008 Posts: 2 Location: , australia
walk away father Posted: 04-21-08 21:59pm
Hi all..
Im a single mother of 8 yo twin boys..
My ex husband of 11 years decided he had
enough of our family and chose to walk
away but within a year he was re married
and moved to the other side of the world
and had another baby with his new wife.
He had his own business here in australia
that was thriving and bringing in very
good money but he threw that in moved to
Canada and he is now not working at
all..his new wife supports him..
I dont get any money off him anymore to
help with the kids..I have one twin that
needs extensive tutoring for school that
is costing so much money..
He is coming over in November to show the
boys his new baby..Im thinkin about not
letting him see the boys as he hasnt
contributed to their upbringing so why
should he get to do what he wants to do..
His new wife has alot of money and has a
nery high paid career so his kid dont go
without so why should his kids from the
past miss out.
When he left me he had a huge high paid
contract to do that was paying a
substantial amount of money ...he had been
getting excited about doing it when we
were together because we were going to set
ourselves up in a bigger house but after
we split he kept all the money to himself
and me and the kids seen nothing of it
while he was jet setting around the world
and buying designer clothes while me and
the kids were living with my parents and
never had wnough money coming in to live
the good life.
He was sly as to get paid half the money
in cash so the child support wouldnt go
up..
I cant believe i married such an a**hole
of a man..
He didnt deserve to have a second chance
at fatherhood..
Ive lost my faith in men!
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mominashoe
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Posted: 05-09-08 16:00pm
Oh please don't lose your faith in men
because you ran into a complete loser! I
am married to a wonderful and dedicated
man who loves me and we will be together
until death. We have 6 children so far
together, and even though things get
rough, we are still loving each other more
every day because of it.
Your situation just makes me so mad just
reading about it!
I think that is just so terrible that he
has done this to you and there is no
excuse for such behavior. Since you are
not in the USA, I can't counsel you on
what to do by yours, but I would
definitely not let him have any part of
your life or your children's. He threw
what he had away and doesn't deserve a
chance with you or his children again, not
to mention a visit to show off things. I
cannot believe the audacity of his
thinking...not paying the required sum to
support his own children.
The father, even if he leaves, is required
by law to pay child support in the USA, or
he ends up being a wanted man. I would
get the law on him if that's possible and
sue for sole custody. Get a restraining
order against him for you and your
children if you have that over there too.
