12 week Belly pic!

Welcome to ehealth amythist butterfly, you'll see that you'll get this everytime you post. Just know at least there are a FEW good people here. Anyway I think everyone carries different and I'm glad you are seeing your doctor soon! Cute belly picture!

To her yes I have thank you for noticing.

I'm very surprised and disapointed in a few of you because of this thread.
I feel very strongly about this, and that's why I couldn't help but post.
I just want to say that I've seen pictures of bellies on here that were bigger than hers and people accepted them for what they were.
I think maybe a few of the first posters on this thread jumped to conclusions. It may have started out with good intentions for her own health, but it quickly wandered from that path.
Whether or not you think she's pushing her belly out along with her bump is not the issue.
It hurt my heart to read the comment that mentioned something along the lines of "what are you going to do when you can't push it out any further?"
It disgusted me, in fact. How would you feel if someone dared to say that to you?
Then again, you're not really in her position at all. I guess that's why you don't feel the need to be considerate.
I know it would really hurt me to hear that. I think if you stopped to consider it, you would agree.
It's all apart of her belly anyhow. If I were her, I'd be proud of my belly, you know?
Amethyst Butterfly (I'm sorry I didn't catch your actual name), I hope you are not turned off to online communities because of this.
Please update us once you have gone to the doctor. And please continue to post pics!
I think you are beautiful and experiencing something amazing in your life.

hear hear, The Mrs! I think you should carry that supporter title and not that Willa girl.

Ms Butterfly, i didnt get to see your pic, but im in the same boat as you... im 4 months along and people ask when im due! lol so dont feel bad. Im not pushing mine out at all.. but because of the crap you got i dont think i'll be posting pics anytime soon.

GOOD LUCK!

Ok, so I would just like to say, its true that I wasn't concerned right away, I never thought anything of it, because my sister was big when she was 12 weeks and so was my mom. I never thought anything of it, until it was pointed out to me, its hard to schedule an appt where i go, I scheduled this one 4 weeks in advance. Yes I do worry, I'm worried about everything. I don't see the need to express my worries with every post I make. I'm sorry if I come off as "fake" I really have no way of proving myself to be real. Maybe I haven't impressed you guys with my winning personality or wonderful story of how I got here, but the truth is, I'm just your average 19 year old girl, I'm 3 months pregnant, with the baby of a guy who wants nothing to do with me, and even denys this baby, a guy who used to swear to me he loved me, who said that he would spend every minute of every day with me if he could, he left me the day after he said that. Now he's off banging some trash, and likes to make sure i hear about it, his whole family is backing him up and hating on me, talking crap about me when I'm only a few feet away. Maybe I seem overly defensive or sensitive about the criticism, but at this time, I am. I have so much going on I just want to scream sometimes. i know a lot of girls on this forum have been in my place, where that dad's have abandoned them. It hurts. You want to believe they'll be there. I was not happy about being pregnant, the most exciting part was posting pics and getting feedback, and comparisons. I wasn't trying to start anything on here, I just wanted to share my experience like the rest of you. I know there have been a lot of fakes on here, but I am not one. (usually the fakes are kind of obvious too) If I seem like it I'm sorry for it. I don't know what to do on here or say without having someone find something wrong with me. And i didn't mean that everyone is insulting, some people on here i found very nice and pleasant.

It's true that everyone is different and can be big at an early stage. It doesn't make them a fake. Try not to worry too much as that can harm the baby. I've been accused as a fake before on here. Apparently my baby didn't look like a newborn when i first posted his pictures. I wouldn't think anything on here. It just happens sometimes because alot of people come on here pretending to be something they are not. But really, i am disappointed in people reactions. This is a place to support people, not to judge them. Let us know how the pregnancy goes and keep us updated. Good luck x

My best friend is 14 weeks pregnant with her first child and she is just as big as you. When she first sent me a pic on my phone I thought she may be pushing it out but- nope - I saw her the other day and she really is that big.

It may just be first trimester bloating (please don't let people terrify you with horror stories of what it could be.We are not doctors) I was that big with my 3rd and, like Candita said, everyone is different.


I wish you a happy, healthy pregnancy