What day did I conceive ? Posted: 07-02-08 10:11am
I just found out on 6/28 that I am
pregnant. My LMP was 5/26. I had sex
with a good friend on 6/5, then had sex
with my long term boyfriend on 6/10. I
had sex with the good friend again on
6/14. (Terrible, i already know). Anyway I
have very regular cycles of 29-30 days
consistently. I am pretty sure I was
ovulating on the 10th based on my body's
signals. However, I can't be certain.
Also - the good friend is married and had
male fertility issues. It took him 9 yrs
to conceive with his wife. He is 41 years
old and my BF is 33. I already have a
daughter with my BF. I really hope this
child is my BF's but I know sperm can live
inside the female body for 3-5 days, so i
guess it technically could have been there
when I ovulated. Any reassurance or
advice from personal experience would be
helpful. I am really stressing out.
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-02-08 12:21pm
You are going to need to get a blood test.
The dates of the 10th and the 14th
overlap. Sperm can live for up to 5 days
and since these dates are so close
together you will need DNA to prove who
the father is.
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whatagem
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Posted: 07-03-08 08:30am
I wasn't worried about sex on the 14th
since I ovulated on the 10th and the egg
dies within 48 hrs max. I always, always
have very regular cycles so I am pretty
sure I ovulated on the 15th day of my
cycle (june 10), then my period would have
been due 14 days later. I was more
concerned with June 5th since sperm can
live 5 days. However, I have read that
sperm only live those 5 days if the woman
has fertile cervical mucus, which I don't
think I had on the 5th. Obviously I have
been searching the net for answers and
been finding several conflicting reports.
Thank you for responding. If anyone
else has any feedback, I would love to
hear it.
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Ingi
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Posted: 07-03-08 12:40pm
You don't know you ovulated on the 10th
unless you were charting and temping. Were
you?
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cjs08
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When did I conceive? Posted: 07-03-08 12:52pm
I am 24 weeks into my pregnancy, the first
day of my lmp was 01/18. I had sex with my
boyfriend on 02/01 and we had a huge fight
and I had sex with a close friend on
02/03. Is there anyway to tell who's it
is? My due date is 10/24 and I was told
that i conceived around the end of jan. or
begining of feb. My boyfriend did not pull
out but my friend did so can anyone help
me figure this out??
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