While working at an supermarket I really
fell in love with this girl however she
didn%u2019t want me which cause a lot of
pain and destroy my confidence with
relationships which is the reason why I
now keep people at arms length. The day
she left I nearly broke down I knew it
would be the last time I would see her I
know I probably sound really pathetic.
Away over the last year which I
haven%u2019t seen her I got my myself a
new job and going to collage which my work
place is paying for which I doing my HNC
in Computing and Information system. I
have also being going out with my mates
and plan on going on Holiday with them
even though I knew I still care about her
I new it was pointless and thought I was
getting on with my life.
A few days we added each other on www.facebook.com and
I sent her an E-mail telling her I was
really sorry for the way I acted in the
past and wanted her to forgive me. I also
mention I hope she was well and happy with
someone. The thing that really hurting at
the moment is that she hasn%u2019t replied
back. I also look at someone of her
photo's she is a beautiful as I remember
and it hurt%u2019s me knowing that
I%u2019m not part of her life.
What should I do how do I stop caring
about this person ? I hope nobody thinks I
weird or something.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 05-05-08 13:46pm
No, you aren't weird or something.
Unrequited love is an age old thing that
most of us have experienced at one time or
another. All because you weren't lucky
with this girl doesn't mean that you will
fail in all other relationships. You
should try with other girls and broaden
your horizons. It also doesn't mean that
later on she might not consider you as a
possible boyfriend.
Since you are in college and probably
don't have the time to commit to a very
serious relationship, just chat with her
and be casual. Give her insight to the
person you really are without making undue
advances. If it's something that is going
to really work out in the long run, then
it will work. Be honest and truthful.
The reason why she hasn't replied might
just be that she hasn't even opened her
computer or had the time to look. All
because email and internet is instant,
doesn't mean that the person on the other
end is any less busy at the moment. She
simply may not have even read your message
yet, and even if she has, maybe she just
needs a little more time to answer.
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thomas130
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2007 Posts: 5
Posted: 05-05-08 13:59pm
Collage is only part time has I have a
full time job what the problem is that I
never see her anymore because the only
time we was together when we work at
Sainsbury’s neither of us do anymore and
we kind of left on bad terms. The only
connection I have is on facebook which is
really quite sad really. I still want to
be with her and be there for her but I
know it will never happen because there no
way I will be able to see in person
anymore.
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