What would you if you were me Posted: 04-19-08 18:24pm
Well i new at this post but it been very
helpful. Let me start off saying my wnts
another child we have a 3 month son he but
he want to try for a girl he a great
father. But i am not ready plus he has a
heart disease i told him ehat if something
happen to him what am i going to do. What
about my kids it seem like he's trying to
get me pregnant. I have told him maybe we
should wait. But when we have sex it a
different story because he's and he
doesn't want me taking pills. I feel like
i shouldjust take something without him
knowing. What do you think and what about
if i am pregnant already what do i do.
Have other children from prevous and he
has a son that's staying with us
permently. I feel like the brady bunch but
he said he love kids and it doesn't matter
because he can take care of them. What you
think
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jodie 16
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ok Posted: 04-20-08 08:38am
IT IS UP TO YOU ? IF YOU WANT ANOTHER ONE
HAVE IF NOT DONT.
HEART DISEASE I DONT THINK THT SHOULD BE
AN ISSUE AS IT WOULD BE GOOD FOR HIM TO
MAKE THE MOST OF HIS LIFE HAVING A BABY
GIRL SOONER TO HIM IS BETTER AS HE WILL
GET MORE TIME WITH HER
YOU SHOULD BOTH TALK TOGHETEHR
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ladyT02
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Posted: 04-24-08 23:08pm
omg wow, no matter how much you guys love
each other it is your body. if you both
want one then go for it if he does and you
dont then dont. it would go both ways too,
if you wanted one and he didnt then you
shouldnt cause you both have to be on the
same page about this. be careful and take
care of yourself
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-24-08 23:55pm
I would wait till the feeling is mutual..
How much do you want another baby?
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Posted: 05-02-08 23:36pm
Dont do it....Ive got one and think i
should have another just so mine has a
sibling but then again if youre not
SURE...dont!! Sounds like you guys have a
few, so just enjoy what you have, unless
your millionaires of course and can afford
it...well thats diffeent then but like you
said your hubby has a heart
condition....would you cope ok on your
own??? Thats what worries me, my hubbies
47, 13 years older than me and i worry
about looking after another. I know im ok
with the one and of course would be with
another too but would i be as happy?????