my due date is december 14,2008. doctor
says iam 6wks, my frist day of my last
period was march 7,2008 and my menstrual
cycle is 28 day can anyone tell me when
did i concieve? please help me i really
need to know
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-23-08 18:23pm
Your doctor would know the span of time
you were most likely were able to
concieve.. However, it really could have
been at anytime. Everyone has there
fertile days during the cycle, but its
possible to get pregnant at anytime during
the month. If s/he was able to tell you
your due day. S/He would be able to tell
you the most likely time.. Good luck
finding out! ALL the best!
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belly22
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when did i concieve ? Posted: 04-23-08 18:45pm
well iam having an ultrasound done this
friday? to make sure how many weeks i am
and then i can probably do the math. thank
you.
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-23-08 18:47pm
Yes when they did my first ultrasound they
gave me an estimate. Then when I had my
second ultrasound they said I was actually
further along. Only DNA will know.
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belly22
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when did i concieve? Posted: 04-23-08 18:51pm
yeah i just hope it helps me i could never
live my life not knowing. but then again i
am afraid of telling my boyfriend there
might be a chance the baby is not his.
just the thought frightens me. i feel
really bad.
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belly22
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when did i concieve? Posted: 04-23-08 18:52pm
but if they give me and estimate of time
how do i do the figuring of it?
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-23-08 18:56pm
I am sorry you're in that position it must
be hard. Its definitly a triky situation
its just good for the baby to know when it
grows up. Because it would be sad if it
was raised without knowing who dad is.. I
would definitly get it checked out.
Ofcourse it will be hard, but its about
the child not the boyfriend. Its totally
up to you. You were seperated when you
slept with the other too right? So, did
you have unprotected sex with both.
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belly22
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when did i concieve? Posted: 04-23-08 19:05pm
yes i know. yes my boyfriend and i were
seperated at both times. frist i always
have unprotected sex with my boyfriend.
and the other guy i was suppose to go to
the doctor but just didnt have time it
just skiped out dont know and by the 29 of
march i did go but got and emercency pill
by the 31st of the month.for the past 2
years we been having sex that is my
boyfriend and i the first 1 and a half i
used birth control after so many months i
never used protection stupid i know.
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StacyHoll
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Posted: 04-23-08 19:13pm
No its not stupid.. You know people do it.
ALOT of people do.. Even I did I only slept with
one person and it took 4 years to get
preg, but it happened. It can always
happen. So you took the emergency pill on
the 29th...
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Posted: 04-23-08 19:29pm
It's hard not knowing, but I think the
ultra sound is accurate, especially if you
are a regular person with a 28 day cycle,
which is ideal for the standard due date
calculations. It looks like you ovulated
one week after your period started, which
really makes sense: a lot of women are
that way.
If you were sleeping with 2 guys in the
same month, it's going to be almost
impossible to tell. If you were only
sleeping with one guy since you think you
got pregnant (the 14th of March by the
calculations) then it's whoever that guy
is, assuming that was when you got
pregnant.
But really only a DNA test is going to
tell who whose it is if you can't figure
it out. Some guys don't have a high sperm
count or any viable sperm and it could be
the case with one of them. Or something
else could have happened. That's why, I
guess this is obvious for you now, that
you stick to only one partner and if you
"break up" with someone, you better make
sure it's permanent before you start
something with someone else. So many
people on this board have this problem of
not knowing who the father of their baby
is because they quarreled one day, got
with someone else the next day, and then
got back with the first guy the next. Too
late!
DNA tests are simple and easy to get, but
only after the baby is born. You are
going to have to tell your boyfriend the
truth about what happened, and if he loves
you, he will stick it through with you.
If he doesn't, he's not man enough to be
with you or be a good father.
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belly22
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When did i concieve? Posted: 04-24-08 13:35pm
How old is your baby is it great to be a
mommy now!!!!
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I only slept with
one person and it took 4 years to get
preg, but it happened. It can always
happen. So you took the emergency pill on
the 29th...
