Why can't I ever get a girl to like me? Posted: 06-19-08 20:00pm
I'm 19, in college.
I'm pretty shy around people I don't know
well, but I usually get better as I get
used the person.
Most people think of me as a nice guy.
I don't drink,smoke, or do any illegal
drugs.
I'm waiting till married for sex.
Here's some of my face book stuff to show
you what I'm like...
Birthday: July 4, 1988
Religious Views: Non-denominational
Christian
Personal Info
Activities: Video games, Anime,
Progamming, and 3D Modeling,
Interests: Video games, Anime, Progamming,
3D Modeling, music, just starting to get
into movies, hanging out with my friends,
and trying to get a life.
Favorite Music: After Forever, Children of
Bodom, Daath, Dark Moor, Drowning Pool,
Epica, Killswitch Engage, Lunatica,
Nightwish, Powerman 5000, Soilwork,
SpineShank, Static-X, The Agony Scene,
Celldweller, In Flames, Dir en Grey,
Maximum the Hormone, Disciple, DethKlok
Favorite TV Shows: Normal shows: Kyle XY,
Greek
Anime: Bleach, Naruto, One Piece, Death
Note, Busou Renkin, Yu Yu Hakusho
Favorite Movies: 300, Hellboy
I'm not really a movie person.
About Me: They really should put a
Favorite Video Game field here.
Favorite Video Games: Tales of the Abyss,
Star Ocean: the Second Story, Final
Fantasy VII, Dark Cloud 2
I'm just tired of feeling lonely, and just
want to feel loved by a girl...
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EddyMc
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Joined: 20 Jun 2008 Posts: 23 Location: , Ireland
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Posted: 06-22-08 14:04pm
I used to be pretty shy, had many problems
getting a girlfriend, this has now all
changed for me.
How I hear you ask, I got a lot more self
confidence, I started weight lifting which
made me more confident around people, my
shyness went away, my thin body was the
cause of my shyness, what this did for me
was to increase my social activity and
decrease my babbeling around members of
the opposite sex.
I'm not saying you need to start on a 5
day weight lifting program, but if you
feel at all apprehensive about the way you
look change it, women love a guy with some
self confidence (not to the point of being
a cocky person), lots of if not all woman
find this attractive.
Also if you sit and wait for a girl to
come to you its not going to happen, you
want something to change in your life YOU
have to make it happen it will not happen
for you, you see a girl you like go over
and talk to her be confident about it she
is probably just a nervous as you are, if
you feel a connection ask her out.
If someone says no to you, just apologize
for bothering her, make your goodby's
short but not finite eg, I might catch ya
around, or see ya later, this also shows
confidence and I have actually had it tip
the balance and been given a number using
this form of goodbye.
Eddy
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pinky164
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 07-19-08 17:27pm
I think that the best approach to this
would to start off friends with girls you
may meet, find a girl that has similar
interests as you and as things progress
you will grow more confident around her as
you said your not as shy after a while of
knowing someone. try taking up new
activities where you can meet new people.
or even strike up a conversation with a
girl in your local shop, libary anywhere!,
women like a guy with a sense of humour so
try making a joke, recommend something to
her wherever you are, some women like a
man that is forward so you could try just
asking her right out on a date with no
hesitation this shows confidence too, i
think with the confidence issue you just
have to say to yourself "whats the worst
that can happen?" all she can do is say no
and then your no worse off than you were
before, but more than likely you will get
a yes give it a go and
just take that leap of faith, could be the
best move you ever make!
give it a go and
just take that leap of faith, could be the
best move you ever make!