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Needadvise999

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Wishing he would end it because I dont have it in me.
Posted: 03-29-08 23:54pm

I love my boyfriend..I really do. We just had a baby together.we've been together for 3 yrs.. But I am SO unhappy. I feel like im completely wasting my life. We never do anything...he never ever shows an interest in me..when i talk he doesnt listen EVER. If I dont talk to him ..we dont talk..HE NEVER talks to me anymore. Its like im in a relationship by myself. And to be compleletly honest.. I thought when our child was born he would be such an amzing father.. but its like I have to push im sometimes to show an interest in her.. he is so distant..and he is always unhappy or just loks that way all the time....and that brings ymood down.. Ill be so hapy and having a fine day and when he walks though the door its like.something comes over me and im just in this unhappy miserable mood and its weird because when he is at work i cant wait for him to come home and then he does and its like oMG just leave.
We've had problems from the beginning.. but now im starting to see that things will never get better.
He shows me no effection, our sex life..there isnt one.
He is emotionally distant the only emotion he sows is anger. He has gotten very physical with me at times..t the point where ive been scared for my life.
He is always miserable
He has no interest in living is life.he just works eats and sleepsTHATS all
Im and the type that wants to live there life and look back with good memories..
he is very boring...gets home a 6 and is asleep by 8
Ive told him time and time again I want out, i don love you anymore, im unhappy, i would be aot better off with out you.
ive told him al of this..because is how i feel. I want to leave him but the thought of it scares me.. I dont know what I would do...financially and emotionally.
I find i have become very mean towards him.. I say things that i know will hurt him..because i want them too...i dont know why
There are so many times ive wished for him to leave me ..but at the same time i think if he ever did I would be heartbroken. I have no idea anymore.
Im so confused. Sad
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Beline

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Posted: 04-21-08 10:05am

I don’t think this is a very healthy relationship. You fear for your life, and yet, you stay with him. If he actually kills you, who is going to take care of your precious little baby? Do you really want a violent man to raise your child by himself?
Please reconsider being with him, because the only thing your little angle is going to learn from her parents is that it is okay for men to get ‘physical’ with woman. Imagine if someday her husband raises his hands to your daughter, and she stays because it is all that she knows.
He is obviously not going to end the relationship, so do it for the sake of your little girl.
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mstrombe

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Posted: 09-26-08 09:06am

you need to get out of the relationship. the hard part though, is you have a child so you need to talk with him about what's going to happen and who will take care of the child. good luck!
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